Extremely WEDDING Checklist

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Early Planning (12–18 Months Before)

• Define overall wedding vision (style, size, formality)
• Decide ceremony type (civil, religious, symbolic, destination)
• Establish total budget range
• Identify financial contributors
• Create shared planning folder (Google Drive / Notion)
• Create wedding email for vendors
• Choose preferred wedding dates
• Consider season & climate for chosen dates
• Draft initial guest list
• Estimate guest count
• Start venue research (ceremony & reception)
• Schedule venue tours
• Browse wedding themes & aesthetic ideas
• Build moodboard / Pinterest inspiration
• Explore wedding planners (optional)
• Begin key vendor research (photo, video, catering)
• Begin dress and suit style research
• Start honeymoon destination research
• Check passport validity

Budget & Financial Planning

▸ Master Budget Setup

• Create a master budget spreadsheet
• Set total spending limit
• Allocate budget by category
• Add 10–15% contingency buffer

▸ Cost Research

• Research average wedding costs in your area
• Compare off-season vs. peak costs
• Request detailed quotes from vendors
• Check for hidden fees (service charges, taxes)

▸ Payments & Tracking

• Track deposit deadlines
• Track final balances
• Store all contracts & invoices
• Confirm cancellation & refund policies

▸ Savings & Financial Prep

• Open dedicated wedding savings account
• Set monthly savings goals
• Review actual vs. planned spending monthly

Guest List & Invitations

• Create master guest list
• Segment guests (family, friends, colleagues)
• Define plus-one rules
• Collect guest addresses
• Note dietary & accessibility needs
• Identify guests needing accommodation

▸ Save-the-Dates

• Choose Save-the-Date design
• Add wedding website link
• Send 6–12 months before

▸ Invitations

• Choose invitation theme & print style
• Finalize wording
• Add ceremony & reception details
• Add dress code
• Add RSVP method & deadline
• Order printed invitations
• Mail 6–8 weeks before

▸ RSVP Tracking

• Track RSVP responses
• Record dietary restrictions
• Update final guest count

▸ Seating Plan

• Create seating chart layout
• Group guests by relation
• Prepare place cards / escort cards

Venue Selection (Ceremony + Reception)

• Decide preferred city/region
• Choose indoor, outdoor or hybrid style
• Check venue capacity vs. guest count
• Review venue photos & real weddings
• Request availability & pricing
• Confirm venue restrictions (music, décor, candles)
• Verify accessibility & parking
• Schedule venue tours
• Evaluate lighting, acoustics & layout
• Confirm backup indoor plan (weather)
• Confirm vendor access times & load-in rules
• Review ceremony/reception floor plan
• Confirm bar policy & corkage rules
• Confirm power outlets & technical needs
• Review contract, fees & overtime policy
• Pay deposit & secure date
• Upload contract to planning folder

Vendors (Catering, Photography, Music, Florals, Cake)

▸ Wedding Planner

• Compare full-service vs. month-of options
• Review portfolios & past events
• Schedule consultation
• Confirm included services
• Review contract & secure planner

▸ Catering

• Choose menu style (plated, buffet, family-style)
• Check vegetarian/vegan/allergy options
• Schedule tasting
• Confirm bar packages & drink policy
• Verify serving staff & cleanup policy

▸ Photographer

• Review full galleries, not highlights
• Check experience with your venue
• Choose package (hours, second shooter)
• Confirm delivery timeline
• Secure booking with deposit

▸ Videographer

• Compare cinematic vs. documentary styles
• Watch full sample films
• Confirm audio recording quality
• Check drone availability & permits
• Book videographer

▸ Music (DJ / Band)

• Choose between DJ, live band or hybrid
• Review sets / mixes
• Provide must-play & do-not-play lists
• Confirm sound system needs
• Book performance

▸ Florals

• Define floral style (minimal, lush, wild)
• Choose bouquet, boutonnières & centerpieces
• Confirm delivery & setup timing
• Confirm cleanup / strike fee

▸ Cake & Dessert

• Choose design & flavors
• Schedule tasting
• Confirm delivery & stand rental
• Book cake designer

Bridal & Groom Outfits

▸ Bridal Dress

• Create inspiration board
• Try multiple silhouettes & fabrics
• Order dress (6–9 months before)
• Schedule fittings (1–2–final)
• Arrange steaming & transport

▸ Bridal Accessories

• Veil or alternative
• Jewelry (necklace, earrings, bracelet)
• Hair accessories (pins, tiara, comb)
• Undergarments & shapewear
• Something old/new/borrowed/blue

▸ Groom Suit / Tux

• Choose suit/tux style & fabric
• Schedule tailoring
• Try full outfit with shoes
• Arrange steaming & pickup

▸ Shoes (Bride & Groom)

• Wedding shoes
• Break in shoes before wedding
• Backup shoes for dancing
• Bring blister patches / cushions

Wedding Party (Bridesmaids, Groomsmen, Roles)

▸ Choosing Your Wedding Party

• Decide number of bridesmaids & groomsmen
• Select Maid/Matron of Honor & Best Man
• Choose Flower Girl(s) & Ring Bearer(s)
• Confirm availability with each member
• Communicate expectations clearly

▸ Bridesmaids

• Share dress color & style guidelines
• Coordinate hair/makeup preferences
• Provide wedding day timeline
• Confirm transportation
• Confirm bouquets & accessories

▸ Groomsmen

• Share suit/tux guidelines
• Confirm rental/purchase deadlines
• Provide day-of arrival times
• Confirm boutonnière pickup
• Coordinate transport

▸ Maid / Matron of Honor Responsibilities

• Coordinate bridesmaid communication
• Assist bride with dress, train & veil
• Hold bouquet during ceremony
• Give wedding speech
• Assist in photo coordination

▸ Best Man Responsibilities

• Manage rings before ceremony
• Coordinate groomsmen timing
• Assist groom with outfit & prep
• Give best man speech
• Help with photoshoot logistics

▸ Flower Girl & Ring Bearer

• Choose outfits
• Practice aisle walk
• Assign responsible adult
• Prepare snacks & backup shoes

▸ Communication & Timeline

• Create group chats (bridal party & groomsmen)
• Share transportation details
• Distribute ceremony & reception timeline
• Assign roles for speeches & toasts

▸ Thank-You Gifts

• Choose gifts for bridesmaids
• Choose gifts for groomsmen
• Prepare packaging
• Deliver gifts before wedding day

Décor & Styling (Theme, Florals, Lighting, Tablescape)

▸ Theme & Aesthetic

• Choose wedding theme (modern, classic, boho, luxury)
• Choose color palette
• Create final moodboard
• Coordinate theme with venue architecture

▸ Ceremony Décor

• Ceremony arch or backdrop
• Aisle decorations (flowers, candles)
• Welcome sign
• Reserved seating markers
• Microphone/sound setup styling

▸ Reception Décor

• Entrance décor
• Guestbook table styling
• Cake table décor
• Bar décor (menu signs, florals)
• Lounge/seating area setup

▸ Tablescape & Settings

• Choose table shapes (round, long)
• Select linens & napkin colors
• Choose plates, glassware & cutlery
• Centerpieces (florals, candles)
• Place cards or name tags

▸ Lighting

• Choose ambient lighting style
• Add string lights or fairy lights
• Plan dance floor lighting
• Add outdoor lanterns (if applicable)

▸ Florals

• Ceremony florals (aisle, arch)
• Reception centerpieces
• Welcome sign florals
• Cake florals
• Florist delivery schedule confirmed

▸ Signage

• Welcome sign
• Seating chart display
• Table numbers
• Bar menu sign
• Guestbook or photo booth sign

Stationery & Printed Materials

▸ Essential Stationery

• Save-the-Dates
• Invitations + envelopes
• RSVP cards (if physical)
• Ceremony programs
• Menu cards
• Place cards / escort cards
• Thank-you cards

▸ Printing & Logistics

• Choose paper + printing method
• Order extra prints (10–20 spare)
• Purchase stamps
• Assemble invitation suites
• Mail invitations on time

Logistics & Transportation

▸ Transportation (Couple, Guests, Wedding Party)

• Book transportation for couple (car, limo, vintage)
• Arrange transport for bridal party
• Arrange transport for groomsmen
• Coordinate shuttle/bus for guests (if needed)
• Confirm pickup & drop-off addresses
• Share schedules with all passengers

▸ Venue & Vendor Logistics

• Confirm vendor arrival times
• Share venue access codes
• Confirm soundcheck times (DJ/Band)
• Confirm florist/rental setup times
• Prepare vendor parking instructions
• Provide printed venue map

▸ Rentals (If Applicable)

• Confirm delivery window
• Verify quantities (chairs, tables, décor)
• Confirm pickup/tear-down schedule
• Assign someone to verify deliveries

▸ Accommodation

• Book hotel room for couple
• Reserve room block for guests (optional)
• Share hotel details with guests
• Prepare check-in documents

Wedding Day Timeline & Coordination

▸ Final Timeline

• Create full-day timeline (prep to exit)
• Share with vendors, venue & wedding party
• Print copies for key people
• Include buffer time for transitions
• Add emergency contacts to timeline

▸ Morning Prep

• Prepare outfits & accessories night before
• Eat a proper breakfast
• Steam dress/suit if needed
• Hair & makeup schedule
• Capture detail shots (rings, bouquet, dress)

▸ Vendor Coordination

• Designate point-of-contact for vendors
• Confirm arrival times with each vendor
• Ensure vendor meals are prepared
• Review setup progress
• Keep emergency kit accessible

▸ Ceremony Coordination

• Ensure rings are with assigned person
• Confirm officiant arrival
• Line-up wedding party
• Play entrance & exit songs
• Assign someone to gather family for photos

▸ Reception Coordination

• Confirm seating chart placement
• Oversee cake placement
• Coordinate grand entrance
• Cue first dance & parent dances
• Confirm toast order
• Coordinate bouquet toss (optional)
• Ensure couple eats & hydrates
• Manage gifts/card box

▸ Emergency Kit

• Safety pins, mini sewing kit
• Painkillers & band-aids
• Stain remover pen
• Tissues & blotting papers
• Backup makeup & lipstick
• Phone charger & powerbank

Post-Wedding & Honeymoon

▸ The Day After

• Collect leftover décor & personal items
• Ensure rentals are returned
• Deliver bouquet to preservation service (optional)
• Return suit/tux rentals
• Gather gifts & cards

▸ Post-Wedding Administration

• Submit name-change documents (if applicable)
• Pay remaining vendor balances
• Leave vendor reviews (photo/video/music/etc.)
• Organize wedding photos & videos
• Send thank-you cards

▸ Honeymoon Planning

• Book flights & accommodation
• Check visa requirements
• Check vaccination requirements
• Purchase travel insurance
• Prepare honeymoon packing list
• Confirm airport transfers
• Prepare honeymoon documents folder

▸ Honeymoon Packing Essentials

• Passports & IDs
• Travel itinerary
• Outfits & swimwear
• Weather-appropriate clothing
• Toiletries & skincare
• Chargers & adaptors
• Emergency meds